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Speaking Tip # 16: First Impressions Are Fast Impressions & Don’t Forget to Smile

I learned the importance of first impressions and commanding attention while playing at Carnegie Hall in New York City with Frank Sinatra.    

Frank Sinatra commended attention when he walked on stage, “by looking tall, fit and trim wearing a tailored suit that fit him to perfection” wearing “a smile”.

Frank Sinatra’s smile lit up the stage!  He began his concert on a positive note by wearing his smile, standing straight and tall, dressed for success, as he walked across the stage. 

When you make your entrance on stage to give your speech, wear your smile, dress for success in clothes that make you feel happy and successful, and stand straight and tall with your shoulders back.  

When you smile you will release the tension you are holding inside you and your audience will smile too! 

When you smile don’t you feel happier? I do!

You can read my story on playing at Carnegie Hall with Frank Sinatra here:

 http://ezinearticles.com/?First-Impressions-Are-Fast-Impressions:-How-Do-You-Succeed-at-Both?&id=6928987


Until next week remember to wear a smile, dress for success, and stand tall and straight to command attention just like Frank Sinatra to make your story memorable and visual.

Madeline Frank, Ph.D., is a 2014 Certified World Class Speaking Coach. She has been coaching and mentoring business professionals to be champion speakers for over 5 years. She is an Amazon.com Best Selling Author, speaker, business owner, teacher, and concert artist. She helps businesses and organizations "Tune Up their Business". Her observations show you the blue prints necessary to improve and keep your business successful.  Her latest book "Leadership On A Shoestring Budget" is available everywhere books are sold.  Contact Madeline Frank for your booking and other inquiries at mfrankviola@gmail.com







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